The thrill of meeting someone new shouldn't come at the cost of your safety. At Hamsey, we believe that secure connections are the only kind worth making. Whether you're using our app to find a study buddy or just striking up a conversation at a bar, understanding the principles of offline safety is non-negotiable. While technology can facilitate the introduction, your personal awareness is your best defense.
1. Public Places are Your Best Friend
Always meet in well-lit, populated public spaces. Coffee shops, malls, parks during the day, and busy restaurants are ideal. The presence of other people provides a natural safety net. Avoid secluded areas, parking lots at night, or inviting strangers to your home/car for a first meeting. If someone pressures you to go somewhere private immediately, that is a major red flag. Politely decline and remove yourself from the situation.
2. Trust Your Instincts (and Our Tech)
Your gut instinct is a powerful survival mechanism evolved over thousands of years. If something feels off, it probably is. You don't need to rationalize your discomfort—just act on it. Hamsey's built-in block and report features are there for a reason. If a user makes you uncomfortable, report them immediately. We also ensure your exact location is never broadcasted—only your relative proximity. Use "Ghost Mode" if you want to disappear from the grid instantly, giving you full control over your digital visibility.
3. The "Buddy System" Digital Update
Tell a friend where you are. Better yet, share your live location via WhatsApp, iMessage, or Google Maps with a trusted contact before meeting someone new. Set up a "check-in" time. If you don't message them by a certain hour, they should call you. Hamsey encourages transparent interactions, so a genuine person won't mind you taking these precautions. In fact, a respectful connection will appreciate that you prioritize safety.
4. Keep Personal Details Personal
Don't share your home address, financial details, workplace specificities, or your daily routine immediately. Get to know the person first. Hamsey's secure chat allows you to communicate without exchanging phone numbers until you're ready. Scammers often try to move conversation off-app quickly to avoid detection. Stay on the platform until trust is established.
5. Control Your Exit
Always have your own transportation plan. Don't rely on your new acquaintance to pick you up or drop you off. Being in control of your movement ensures that if things go south or if you simply get bored, you can leave on your own terms. Keep your phone charged and your belongings within sight at all times.
